Does A Ring Define My Relationship?
-By Kelsey Santiago My friend and I were having our weekly conversation. You know, girl talk, exchanging delicious tea. Slowly but surely, we got on the controversial topic of marriage,…
The Corona Virus Is Redefining Online Dating
We are living in uncharted times right now. The COVID-19 cases in America have surpassed both China and Italy, and “Shelter in Place” orders have been issued by governors all…
A Letter To Any Man Who Ever Ghosted Me
To Any Man Who Ever Ghosted Me, What happened? Honestly, what happened? You told me exactly what I wanted to hear, tricked me into letting my guard down, and then…
If you do anything in 2020, I hope you grieve all you’ve lost
If you do anything in 2020, I hope you grieve all you've lost - all the time, all the experiences, and all of the people. Everything you consider a waste,…
Don’t Come To Me Woman to Woman
I’ve been meaning to write a blog about the woman-to-woman exchange when it comes to men. However - every time I sat down to get it on paper, my mind…
#Thotumn #HotNerdFall or #FlyGirlFall
Well, ladies, it is officially Fall, and Hot Girl Summer is a wrap. For those who are unfamiliar, “Hot Girl Summer” is a phrase that was coined in the early…
Why Do I Date Difficult Men?
Last week, I received a text from Nicole that said… “It was so refreshing to see you with a man who isn’t difficult.” I read it again and the words…
You Are Stronger
(Please enjoy this reader submission by Shamicka Ramirez from The Bronx, NY. You can find more of her work on her instagram @Shamicka4ever.) You are stronger than you know. Whatever…
Would you share your location with your significant other?
I have a friend who is newly divorced and treats me as if I’m her dating therapist. (I swear, I write about a couple of bad dates, and women think…
A Saturday Vibe Pt. 2
But now it's to the point where my love is up for debatingMaybe it's too late to shakeI think love is shown, you think love is spokenAnd we both comin'…