If you do anything in 2020, I hope you grieve all you’ve lost
If you do anything in 2020, I hope you grieve all you've lost - all the time, all the experiences, and all of the people. Everything you consider a waste,…
Don’t Come To Me Woman to Woman
I’ve been meaning to write a blog about the woman-to-woman exchange when it comes to men. However - every time I sat down to get it on paper, my mind…
#Thotumn #HotNerdFall or #FlyGirlFall
Well, ladies, it is officially Fall, and Hot Girl Summer is a wrap. For those who are unfamiliar, “Hot Girl Summer” is a phrase that was coined in the early…
Why Do I Date Difficult Men?
Last week, I received a text from Nicole that said… “It was so refreshing to see you with a man who isn’t difficult.” I read it again and the words…
You Are Stronger
(Please enjoy this reader submission by Shamicka Ramirez from The Bronx, NY. You can find more of her work on her instagram @Shamicka4ever.) You are stronger than you know. Whatever…
Would you share your location with your significant other?
I have a friend who is newly divorced and treats me as if I’m her dating therapist. (I swear, I write about a couple of bad dates, and women think…
A Saturday Vibe Pt. 2
But now it's to the point where my love is up for debatingMaybe it's too late to shakeI think love is shown, you think love is spokenAnd we both comin'…
Meet Your Mistakes With Grace
We are so much more than our mistakes, missteps, and mishaps. Be gentle with yourself. I often hear that I emanate beauty and grace in the face of adversity. I…
Can Women Actually Have Male Platonic Friends?
“I still haven’t perfected the curve with guys I’m trying to do business with. Most times, once I curve them, the business with them goes away. What is the most…
Making New Friends… Online
-By Laci Swann Have you ever come across a particular person’s Instagram account, and you feel as though you know the ins and outs of their life, but you have…