A Letter To Any Man Who Ever Ghosted Me
To Any Man Who Ever Ghosted Me, What happened? Honestly, what happened? You told me exactly what I wanted to hear, tricked me into letting my guard down, and then…
If you do anything in 2020, I hope you grieve all you’ve lost
If you do anything in 2020, I hope you grieve all you've lost - all the time, all the experiences, and all of the people. Everything you consider a waste,…
Don’t Come To Me Woman to Woman
I’ve been meaning to write a blog about the woman-to-woman exchange when it comes to men. However - every time I sat down to get it on paper, my mind…
Meet Your Mistakes With Grace
We are so much more than our mistakes, missteps, and mishaps. Be gentle with yourself. I often hear that I emanate beauty and grace in the face of adversity. I…
Can Women Actually Have Male Platonic Friends?
“I still haven’t perfected the curve with guys I’m trying to do business with. Most times, once I curve them, the business with them goes away. What is the most…
The Only Thing Disappointing About The Masters Is…
My ex-boyfriend and I had the most fascinating obsession with the game of golf. In the golf world, where Tiger Woods was the darkest guy on the greens, my ex and I served as an entirely new introduction to the “urban experience.”
I’m In Love With A Man I Put In “The Friend Zone.”
I’m in love with a man I put in the friend zone. There, I said it. I’m in love with a man that I put in the friendzone, and now…
The Girl Code
For as long as I can remember, The Girl Code has been the imaginary list of unofficial rules and commandments that shape our friendships. It is surprisingly universal, and nearly unanimous despite…
To Bae, On Valentine’s Day Pt. 2
Dear Future Husband, Last year on this day I wrote you a letter in which I shared my desire to get to know more about you and our life together.…
What If A Man Went Through Your Cell Phone Prior To Your First Date?
Does anyone remember that show on MTV called “Room Raiders”? “Room Raiders” was a dating reality show where viewers would spend 30 minutes watching a contestant snoop through the rooms…